Valentine's Day Update...

UPDATE: Wayne brought me home flowers today. Maybe Valentine's Day isn't so bad after all. Yesterday, I told him the story below to fill him in on why I'm so bah-humbug over the day. So today, even though he dosen't believe in the holiday - he still did a thoughtful & very sweet thing for me! He's the best husband I've ever had (okay, so he's only the 2nd (and last) - but he's still the best)!

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Mindy said…

I knew he's do something!! What about your other v-days together? This wasn't your first was it?

9:37 AM

Erren said…

Our first vday, we were still doing the long distance thing and last year, I guess we were just busy with wedding plans because I don't recall a thing about vday. He must have gotten me flowers - he gets flowers for no reason pretty often so, I'd have to say he must have - for the life of me I just don't remember.

10:01 AM

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